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Sending a reply message
If a person sends you an email try to be nice enough to reply
back even if you are not interested. Lots on here use points
to send emails and are not sure if the email was even received.
So be nice ... |
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3.47 |
9/6/2010 11:03 am |
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The smartest thing
The smartest thing anyone ever said to me was no ... |
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0.00 |
9/6/2010 5:02 am |
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Be Careful out there
You know when I read about someone doing all these crazy
things. What comes to mind is this simple thought: it just
takes one mistake with the wrong person and your health
is gone. So, say " no ... |
1 |
12 |
1 |
5.00 |
9/5/2010 8:26 pm |
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Question for the guys
So I'm asking. Would it bother you guys if you were single,
to sleep with a girl who was ... |
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8 |
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2.40 |
9/5/2010 5:03 pm |
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Old photos
What do you do when you chat to someone...get all friendly...then
make the step and the person has posted a 10 year old photo?
You cant say my how youve ... |
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27 |
6 |
1.66 |
9/3/2010 1:41 pm |
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ahhhh no........
What is the best way to get away from someone you absolutely
have ZERO interest in yet they think you are the stuff ? I have tried being nice. We are not "friends"
she is just one in the ... |
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14 |
2 |
1.04 |
9/3/2010 11:38 am |
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on average...
Curious ... I would like some advice on how to say "no
thanks"; i.e. let someone down, especially upon
meeting in person...in a nice way. I'm usually blunt
and just say, 'I don't feel like there is ... |
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47 |
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8/25/2010 3:35 pm |
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Be well, do good work, and keep in touch.
Goodbye... |
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8/18/2010 11:17 am |
lyubit, 39 F
8/16/2010 2:13 am
8
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what?
had no idea why he didn't phone....i thought don't
get bitchy could be an emergency. that would be awful if
i got all pissed off over a no call\no show and it turned out
that he was in a wreck on the ... |
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41 |
11 |
1.67 |
8/16/2010 2:13 am |
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this one is easy
the simple way of doing it is just be as polite as you can and
just simply say no thanks. if they cant handle it its not
your problem and if they get pissy i say oh well its not the
first time ... |
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3.00 |
8/2/2010 12:40 am |
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whymen call u a bitch
Why is it that when a man sends u multiple messages trying
to get your attention, and when you ignor them they call
u afat bitch... I dont get it who was emailing who i the first ... |
25 |
134 |
61 |
1.52 |
8/1/2010 12:15 pm |
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???
If a women is uncomfortable watching you masturbate, do
you think:
(A) You need more time together ( She's a prude (C) She should of sat elsewhere on the ... |
2 |
20 |
11 |
1.86 |
7/31/2010 6:54 pm |
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Just an answer please....lol
hi, not sure if anyone else runs across this, but if you are
interested in someone and say hi on chat or in the IM or send
an e-mail, wouldnt you like an answer? LOL!
i know i would, just a ... |
19 |
91 |
24 |
2.79 |
7/27/2010 9:25 am |
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mem and her baby
well my friend josh and his friend memorie were not goin
out just at a party all fucked up and no condom .....bad situation
when it cam along wit a baby...now yet another child that
has a ... |
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43 |
7 |
0.75 |
7/17/2010 1:33 pm |
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Walking the walk.
Ok boys and girls this is just a quick little piece on "saying
no". We all know we have been in situations that put
us in a position of weakness or addiction, especially when
it comes to matters of ... |
1 |
37 |
5 |
2.82 |
7/16/2010 4:24 am |
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What are some tactful ways to say 'No Thanks'?
I find it difficult, and I'm sure it's difficult
for other, but I also know it's so much better than stringing
things out over time and hoping they get the hint. Why is
it so hard to say 'No Thanks' ... |
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95 |
41 |
0.96 |
7/5/2010 10:32 pm |
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no thanks
how hard is it for you to date, the same person, for a time,
and every time sex come up, its always no thanks. when do
you say good ... |
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31 |
1 |
2.40 |
6/30/2010 2:04 pm |
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Meeting someone who doesn't seem quite what they described
Have you ever met someone who doesn't look anything
like the pic they sent you? How do you politely get out of
whatever you had planned to ... |
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129 |
25 |
2.69 |
6/24/2010 4:25 am |
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Sex without a condom...
Many men are willing to have sex without a condom both for
pleasure and for the taboo and risky sting. Pregnancy is
not fun, but more like hell. Therefore, unless you and your
partner don't have STDs ... |
6 |
99 |
17 |
3.97 |
6/19/2010 6:38 am |
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Whatever!
I don't believe a lot of people understand
what the two words no thanks means. How many times does a
person need to say it? ... |
15 |
106 |
49 |
3.84 |
6/6/2010 7:44 pm |
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is being too close a problem??
What the hell is up with these chicks man. It seems like they
only are interested in dudes that live on the other side
of the country! If you listen to any of the girls on cam they
are always ... |
9 |
81 |
31 |
0.56 |
6/3/2010 4:47 pm |
Roouni, 18 M
5/31/2010 1:52 pm
1
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I hate when..
What u hate when she says..NO ... |
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1.06 |
5/31/2010 1:52 pm |
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That would be nice!
Yes it would be nice if some of the people on here said "No
Thanks" It's the total lack of common courtesy
that gets me up in arms. There are so many automated replies
and just a simple no thanks if ... |
6 |
62 |
15 |
1.14 |
5/27/2010 10:49 am |
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Finishing something you start
I recently received an email from a nice lady who seemed
quite interested in some nsa fun. I replied to here email
and we chatted nicely for a few emails. Though once i suggested
the idea of meeting ... |
2 |
104 |
7 |
3.55 |
5/23/2010 10:26 am |
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Watch it !
Your life can be changed in a matter of seconds by someone
who doesn't even know you yet. ... |
9 |
107 |
23 |
1.84 |
5/21/2010 2:43 pm |
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Credentials!
Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human
being.... |
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33 |
15 |
1.14 |
5/21/2010 7:39 am |
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polietness in general
i have been using the instant messenger system for some
time now.The most annoying thing that i come across are
the people that accept a contact by opening a chat window,
but then not adding anything ... |
10 |
73 |
22 |
2.53 |
5/18/2010 3:05 pm |
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Letting someone down easy
Is it ever not okay to let someone down easy when there just
isn't any chemistry? I mean, do you think there is ever
an ... |
2 |
39 |
3 |
2.94 |
5/17/2010 8:26 pm |
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How Many Times Does A Lady Have to Politely Say No?
Before she can't just flat out be rude? Have you ever
been there?
My profile(check it out) is written to weed out the "undesireables."
Sometimes it works & sometimes it doesn't. There
always ... |
16 |
128 |
49 |
2.27 |
5/14/2010 11:36 pm |
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Worry !
Most of the stuff people worry about ain't never
gonna happen anyway. ... |
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27 |
12 |
0.50 |
5/12/2010 6:16 am |
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Why do people do that?
I need a little perspective on why people will start chatting
and emailing you on here and you seem to get along well ...
then you agree to exchange pics and then "POOF"
once the woman gets your pic ... |
13 |
156 |
43 |
2.63 |
5/2/2010 2:01 pm |
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no
Yes guys also can say no thanks for sex it is possible ... |
2 |
30 |
7 |
2.02 |
5/1/2010 2:23 pm |
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Wondering !
Sometimes saying, "No thanks, " will have
you wondering later on if you were right, and sometimes
you'll find out later on from an event, that you made
a great decision in saying, "No thanks!" ... |
3 |
40 |
25 |
0.00 |
4/29/2010 7:37 am |
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saying no thanks
how many of you say these days no thanks to unsafe ... |
2 |
26 |
3 |
3.43 |
4/20/2010 3:23 am |
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is it possible
Is it possible for a man to reject sex  how many times have you guys rejected sex and ... |
6 |
88 |
22 |
1.69 |
4/16/2010 11:03 pm |
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Men....
I love women. I always have and always will. I'm no looker
and I have my issues but all in all I'm a decent guy (for
the most).
Men on the other hand are always asking if they can play ... |
5 |
95 |
10 |
1.79 |
4/15/2010 6:22 am |
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The trouble with online dating
I thought I'd start by saying that I'm just an average
guy in most respects. Ok got that out of the way so hopefully
I won't get flamed for insensitivity. However I've
dated plenty over the years and ... |
8 |
93 |
26 |
3.35 |
4/1/2010 5:41 pm |
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How do you exit gracefully?
If you meet someone and the chemistry isn't there.
I am fairly straightforward, but it'd be interesting
to hear others' ... |
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161 |
49 |
2.82 |
3/31/2010 5:26 pm |
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is it harder for guys?
It seems like guys will say yes to anyone, yet girls will
say no to anyone. why in the world is it like ... |
10 |
89 |
35 |
0.95 |
3/26/2010 1:15 pm |
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Too good to be true
Anyone besides myself had to turn down someone because
you had a feeling they wanted something other than a dating/casual
encounter situation? Some seem a bit too much like the IM
chat bots of the ... |
4 |
66 |
6 |
2.80 |
3/25/2010 2:42 am |
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Has anyone here been stalked at work?
I work in a restaurant and spend a good portion of my day catering
to and entertaining customers. The majority of people
ignore you or make conversation, then there's the
rare times I get a barnacle. ... |
6 |
53 |
10 |
1.59 |
3/25/2010 2:29 am |
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Have fun but be careful
Coming out of high school I had only had sex a couple of times
and at that time I really didn't care for it. How thangs
have changed. But the first time I considered having sex
with someone that ... |
5 |
245 |
22 |
3.37 |
3/21/2010 7:56 pm |
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WHY I DO NOT IM WHEN WEB CAMING.
WHEN I FIRST STARTED
WEB CAMMING I FOUND TRYING TO IM WITH ANY ONE VERY DESTACTING, AND
I DECIDED BACK THEN THAT MY SHOW WOULD BE UNINTERUPED, SO
THAT I WOULD GIVE ... |
7 |
130 |
30 |
3.34 |
3/15/2010 12:40 am |
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strippers
male half
it's been years since i've been but the best way
i've found to get rid of strippers who want to table
dance for you is to have a line ready. mine have been, "sorry, you ... |
5 |
97 |
20 |
1.72 |
3/14/2010 1:35 pm |
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How many times?
Ever had to go out on a date from NZ Friend Finder and then realised that
person is nothing like you wanted, and had to say "No"
?
How many times? How awkward was it?
... |
7 |
81 |
15 |
2.37 |
3/14/2010 10:47 am |
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Don't Deal With It
I respond on the advice line and I am all the time hearing
from people....why, after I email or meet someone do I never
hear from them again. My theory is that they are afraid to
let you down or ... |
6 |
98 |
29 |
3.04 |
3/11/2010 5:57 am |
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Be upfront
Just like the category says, I think if you or even someone
else that you like is not interested, it's easier to
be upfront and say, "no thanks. i'm not interested."
isn't that so much better than no ... |
4 |
42 |
9 |
1.29 |
3/4/2010 2:03 pm |
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SPANK BANK: PEACE OF ASS
Everyday Answers
Choosing to Change by Joyce Meyer
How serious are you about wanting change in your life? A
lot of us want ... |
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1.73 |
3/2/2010 11:46 am |
wjb311, 27 M
2/27/2010 4:17 pm
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be nice!...or not
a girl like you, but you are not attracted to her or the fact
that she dropped out of high school....so instead of telling
her that - you just say " I don't want a relationship
at this time". but ... |
4 |
41 |
6 |
2.23 |
2/27/2010 4:17 pm |
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Is chivalry still out there?
I would hope politeness is still alive and well in today's
swinging lifestyle..I mean...So many unanswered e-mails...just
makes ya wonder how some people are being brought up.? It's
not hard to reply ... |
6 |
70 |
19 |
3.26 |
2/27/2010 2:28 pm |
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Easier for Women to Say No?
Is it easier for a woman to say "No thanks" then
a man?
When meeting for the first coffee, I am not always interested
in following through. But I also feel like I can't say
no at that point. ... |
8 |
78 |
10 |
3.58 |
2/22/2010 9:45 am |
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It was nice till the cock showed up !
I met this guy on another site and we chatted for a good while.
He was like I not gonna rush you...when you feel comfortable
then we could meet. I finally went out on a date with him to
a nice jazz ... |
19 |
325 |
88 |
1.77 |
2/18/2010 7:28 pm |
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GIVE THEM EQUAL PAY FOR AN EQUAL DAY BUT TAKE THE SWIMSUIT EDITION AWAY!
With the liberated woman's movement back in full swing
it's time for men to give them exactly what they want
but stand up for what we want too.
Because we want you!
So look at the ... |
2 |
36 |
9 |
0.86 |
2/9/2010 11:17 am |
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Yep, the no thanks sometimes is not well taken
Yeah sure I'm a guy and guys never say no to sex right?
I'm one of those weird kind of guys who can keep an erection
for a long time to keep up with the situation but sometimes
a no is a no. ... |
5 |
54 |
11 |
1.30 |
2/6/2010 7:22 pm |
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Is it just me, OR?
Is it just me or does this word "NO THANKS" seem
to be popping up more places than Paris Hilton. anywhere
you go, from clubs to bars to a good'ol walk in the park,
this word seems to pop up its ugly ... |
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37 |
4 |
2.08 |
2/5/2010 4:33 pm |
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MAYBE I SHOULD QUIT ALL TOGETHER: PART ONE
Not really quit. But join my brothers. And be there when
my sisters come crawling through the door in tatters. Take
their hand and lift them up. One will be the right one and
she will walk with ... |
8 |
78 |
18 |
1.49 |
2/3/2010 3:42 pm |
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You could at least reply
Many people are on here for many different reasons, I think
that there shoud be a way that everyone regardless of membership
type should be allowed to at least review who is sending
message of all ... |
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96 |
27 |
0.00 |
1/24/2010 8:31 pm |
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If no thanks doesn't work...
I bet pepper spray will, ... |
2 |
23 |
3 |
2.94 |
1/15/2010 12:21 pm |
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We are different
I do respect the fact that other people's liberties
should be respected. To say No is a way of expressing how
you feel about something. It shows the ability to chose
what you want and leave what you ... |
1 |
15 |
1 |
5.00 |
1/12/2010 9:17 pm |
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no thank you
Hey everyone it's ok to say no thank you. When you do
people should respect ... |
3 |
58 |
12 |
3.68 |
1/11/2010 9:14 am |
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when saying no thanks politely doesn't go over
sometimes it seems like i am very careful to pick my wording
in my response, and i am still treated very rudely to someone
i didn't pursue in the first place. i try to say things
that won't hurt any ... |
2 |
23 |
5 |
3.80 |
1/8/2010 8:38 pm |
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Just Leave Me Alone!
Sometimes people just don't get it. You try the simple
'no thanks' or 'I'm busy right now.'
But they just won't take no for an answer. I find yahoo messenger to be, by far, the worst. As if being ... |
6 |
92 |
12 |
2.45 |
1/7/2010 7:19 pm |
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Say 'no thanks' the right way
Overview: It's a good practice to let job candidates
know when they haven't gotten the job. Use this sample
thanks-but-no-thanks letter to build goodwill with people
who may be a better match for ... |
5 |
51 |
9 |
0.43 |
1/7/2010 12:45 am |
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Saying no because it is just terrable.
I am not known for turning any one down or away because of
their appearance at all, how ever I have been known to stop
the action at the beginning or middle because it is so disgustingly
bad. ... |
8 |
76 |
5 |
2.16 |
1/2/2010 2:11 pm |
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????
how often do people on here get tested???? I dont have and
have never had a std. is it unpolite or rude how should i bring
this question ... |
6 |
42 |
7 |
3.04 |
1/1/2010 7:45 am |
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Yes
If you just say yes, things will then be better for everyone
Food for ... |
4 |
19 |
5 |
1.51 |
12/25/2009 9:10 pm |
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why are men only looking for sex
why do men only look for sex at the bar and think by buying
u a drink its going to lead to sex and they should have our
number to call us and it will lead to ... |
6 |
96 |
5 |
2.16 |
12/23/2009 6:39 am |
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I'm not sure how to say it but.... "No Thanks"
Recently, I received an invitation to a 'party'
that included men and women having fun, as we do. The invitation
was amazing as it had me down as one of the one kinda-single
guys to be there. ... |
3 |
81 |
2 |
2.42 |
12/18/2009 9:11 pm |
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Is it better to ignore
I was just wondering how many people out there, have expressed
intrest in someone, who wrote, only to be ignored by the
person.Isn't it more polite to kindly say your not
intrested, then to ignore ... |
8 |
99 |
33 |
0.00 |
12/18/2009 7:02 pm |
KTP77, 31 M
12/10/2009 7:30 pm
1
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Big Girls
I'm looking for a kind way to walk away from big girls
on this site without hurting anyone's feelings. Can
someone please offer some ... |
18 |
218 |
100 |
0.76 |
12/10/2009 7:30 pm |
cw101, 40 M
12/9/2009 11:32 pm
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being polite but firm
Well having read a few of the articles - it seems we're
all more or less on the same frequency as it were.
Ive had quite a few occasions in the past where despite what
my profile says - ie ... |
3 |
65 |
8 |
4.17 |
12/9/2009 11:32 pm |
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How do you tell a couple no thanks after meeting them?
Weve not had to experience this yet because all the couples
we played with were great, but how do you tell a couple no
after meeting up with them and it's not what you ... |
6 |
80 |
13 |
3.98 |
12/5/2009 5:53 pm |
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how to nicely get the I'm Gay point across?
I've been on this site for about three years and as time
goes on it seems that it gets harder and harder to fight people
off when i explain to them (usually a straight single male
or a couple that ... |
6 |
91 |
27 |
2.50 |
11/13/2009 8:22 pm |
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pick my self up
"you don't need a sledgehammer to get thru to
me"-P.F.Sloan and so we emailed , a lot in common and acouple of 'things'
not... I moved beyond my comfort or past experience zone...at
least verbally ... |
3 |
41 |
7 |
3.04 |
11/8/2009 6:46 am |
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observations
Saying no is suck a drag that 9 times out of 10, I just don't.
You get a profile that clearly does not match what you are
looking for. You replay, No Thanks you, I don't feel
we are compatible... ... |
12 |
129 |
15 |
4.20 |
11/5/2009 1:21 pm |
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when just saying no isnt enough...
Guy: I would go to the end of the world for you! Girl: Yea but would you stay there?
Man:is this seat empty?
Woman:yes and this one will be too if you sit down!
Man:your ... |
3 |
40 |
14 |
1.38 |
11/1/2009 6:29 pm |
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I wish
Well, after another sleepless night trying to make some
sense out here, i realise a considerable section of the
female population here looking only for other "women".
okaaaaay
Wish i was ... |
1 |
43 |
3 |
0.00 |
11/1/2009 1:52 pm |
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ATTENTION:TO FOLKS THAT CAN'T READ RIGHT
HI FOLKS.JUST WANTED TO DROP FEW LINES TO YOU INDIVIDUALS
THAT DON'T READ THRU THE PROFILES COMPLETELY.OR AT
LEAST, IT SEEMS LIKE YA DON'T.YOU KNOW WHO YA ARE.AN
EXAMPLE F A PROFILE SAYS RIGHT ON ... |
3 |
104 |
12 |
2.27 |
10/29/2009 6:27 pm |
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How do you say this??
How in the world can you sya no thanks to a girl that is willing
to do anything in the world for ... |
6 |
65 |
7 |
1.51 |
10/27/2009 10:30 pm |
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Taking a break
It came suddenly I'm sure for my husband but one night,
I asked him how he would feel about suspending our NZ Friend Finder account
temporarily. He asked why...my reply....I just want to
take a break. It seemed ... |
10 |
166 |
27 |
3.03 |
10/25/2009 5:46 pm |
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hi
no ... |
3 |
17 |
6 |
2.51 |
10/25/2009 12:04 pm |
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Some people dont get it
If a person is not gay why try and get @ them, wtf ... |
5 |
42 |
5 |
2.49 |
10/22/2009 1:14 am |
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No Thanks
How can another person say that they didnt c the sign when
a person is no interest n then u shouldnt have 2 hurt some
1 feeling 2 say No Thanks !That person already knows they
just dont want 2 accept ... |
3 |
45 |
3 |
3.92 |
10/13/2009 8:22 am |
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Nancy Reagan said it 1st
Yes she ... |
1 |
28 |
0 |
0.00 |
10/12/2009 5:06 pm |
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To Reply or Not To Reply
I try to respond to all emails received whether there is
interest on my part or not. Regardless I get back to everyone
either way. I am wondering how everyone feels is the best
way to get an "I am ... |
21 |
163 |
75 |
1.79 |
10/5/2009 10:04 pm |
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i never say no
no is not in my vocabulary especially when it comes to sex
i will always try it atleast once! it is ok to say no but i just
never ... |
2 |
69 |
6 |
0.52 |
9/29/2009 10:13 am |
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Don't be afraid to say no thank you I'm not interested.
It can be hard for all of us at one point in time or another
to really put our foot down and say NO! This is especially
for the ladies; don't ever let any guy try to persuade
you into doing something ... |
1 |
35 |
5 |
2.16 |
9/28/2009 9:55 am |
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How saying " No Thanks"?
Hello all,
Many ladies are trying to contact me here... In some I am interest and in other I am not. When you are not
interest in someone you can build a real realation, right?
or even be ... |
2 |
34 |
7 |
1.51 |
9/18/2009 9:25 am |
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Peace for sex?
Would you be willing to give up sex for one year if you knew
it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have ... |
7 |
59 |
19 |
1.41 |
9/16/2009 12:37 pm |
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I tried to be nice...
Just recently, I visited my old job cause I was in the area.
I ran into a girl I knew liked me. I guess she though it was
the most oppertune moment to get one last shot. I was walking
past the lunch ... |
3 |
70 |
9 |
0.00 |
9/14/2009 10:37 pm |
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Lot of things
There are several questions I'd need answered to be
able to give this question the best possible answer. Was
she ever molested/raped? How long have you been married?
If she has been molested/raped- ... |
2 |
36 |
5 |
0.53 |
8/29/2009 10:54 pm |
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Here's one way !
Just tell whoever that your seeing someone and you don't
want to cheat on them. ... |
9 |
76 |
37 |
0.00 |
8/25/2009 5:15 pm |
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Why do people lead people on?
Some people I have known would lead people on or get hopes
up instead of saying no thanks. Why do people do ... |
6 |
51 |
16 |
3.42 |
8/22/2009 10:08 pm |
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wemon
WHY CANT they just be like no thanks instead of being ... |
7 |
54 |
10 |
0.60 |
8/20/2009 11:15 pm |
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Gnawing And Slurping On The Body And Blood Of Christ
Most people know that 6 million Jews died in Nazi concentration
camps. We hear about it all the time. But what most people
do not know is that 5.5 million Catholics met that same fate.
You ... |
6 |
68 |
11 |
1.48 |
8/17/2009 4:46 pm |
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BBW..just not my thing
So, I'm just personally not into BBW. I know a great
deal of people are and it's not that I feel that BBW's
aren't beautiful, it's just not what I'm
looking for.
So when I'm contacted by a ... |
17 |
185 |
69 |
0.98 |
8/14/2009 10:02 am |
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This is for the guys...
At what point is it legit to just look at a woman... and say
no ... |
6 |
72 |
6 |
1.09 |
8/4/2009 7:33 pm |
BRON13, 22 M
8/4/2009 10:58 am
6
Articles,
Score
0.0
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passing
whats the best line you used to reject ... |
4 |
63 |
8 |
2.78 |
8/4/2009 10:58 am |
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My nice way of saying no at a strip club
Strip clubs are fun places. You sit back, relax, and meet
beautiful naked or half naked women that treat you right.
However, when there I have to put some limits on how much
to spend. Like if a girl ... |
3 |
70 |
8 |
0.70 |
7/23/2009 12:49 pm |
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What's worse?
Being horny as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick or
guy you can't fuck (for whatever reason) or being horny
as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick/guy that won't
fuck ... |
8 |
67 |
12 |
0.86 |
7/22/2009 11:40 am |
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Really No Thanks?
Saying No is not taken lightly by some.Saying No Thanks
is a strong suggestion that the person really means the
opposite. Men are attracted to women who use the NO word and always
confuse the ... |
5 |
83 |
7 |
2.28 |
7/21/2009 5:56 pm |
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i prefer
if u ask me that u r nearly love me i will say "no thanks"
but if u ask me if i like to have fun in a group sex it would be
excited so add Adult ... |
5 |
75 |
12 |
2.09 |
7/18/2009 6:37 am |
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when your a guy and not interested
when your a guy..its not always easy to say no thanks.. sometimes
you feel like your obligated because your man hood is put
up on the line.. women are used to rejecting men..for the
most part. ... |
6 |
61 |
16 |
2.69 |
7/16/2009 12:45 am |
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now be firm
Sometimes an offer from a stranger can be too much or demanding
to your own morals. Be firm to just say no and subsequently
thank them ... |
2 |
41 |
9 |
3.43 |
7/6/2009 10:43 am |
|
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say no
say ... |
8 |
43 |
12 |
0.86 |
7/1/2009 12:15 am |
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Best Defense is An Offense
Here are a few suggestions to Surviving the "No Thanks"...
My personal view, is the best defense is having an offense.
So, when I want to say "NO", I position myself
so that the other person ... |
10 |
179 |
33 |
3.24 |
6/26/2009 10:39 am |
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A good way to avoid trouble
Saying no thanks is offcourse a good way to avoid trouble.
Instead taking an agressive or unwanted man home its always
gud to say no thanks to the person. Its gud with both males
and ... |
6 |
51 |
13 |
1.63 |
6/25/2009 3:32 pm |
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Some people don't know when to hold back.
as long as you are polite about saying no i don't see
a problem. but here are some pretty rude people on here that
tick me off who don't know who to keep things to themselves
and can say some pretty ... |
3 |
47 |
8 |
2.55 |
6/25/2009 12:07 am |
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not looking at profiles..
I have been on this cite now for a little while and I was reading
some of the articles and wanted to put my two cents worth
in. I am a 30 yo woman and constantly get e-mails and flirts
from men that ... |
14 |
229 |
53 |
1.88 |
6/16/2009 10:09 pm |
|
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Stalkers
Just don't seem to know what no ... |
5 |
84 |
5 |
3.14 |
6/15/2009 11:53 pm |
|
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Fatal attraction !
Fatal attractions can come from just merely saying,
"No thanks!"
Have you ever known this to happen to anyone near to you?
... |
11 |
92 |
46 |
0.00 |
6/9/2009 6:06 pm |
|
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Not saying no means no?
How many of you just leave an email unanswered if you're
not interested?
How many of you actually reply to say "No ... |
22 |
163 |
59 |
2.63 |
6/2/2009 3:26 am |
|
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thats hard
nope cant do it want it need it ... |
3 |
32 |
5 |
1.19 |
5/23/2009 12:24 am |
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does saying no thanks make you look bad?
if your not intrested in a cpl or single person and tell them
no thanks, does that make you look ... |
16 |
129 |
24 |
1.99 |
5/11/2009 7:09 pm |
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Don't be rude.
i know there are a some of you out there that just feel that
if you are not interested in meeting with someone, just
let them know. We are all adults here and she be able to handle
rejection like ... |
4 |
50 |
18 |
0.53 |
5/10/2009 10:12 am |
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Ok this has been on my mind...
so i have a general guideline when it comes to guys, i prefer
guys between 18 and 26, but it seems that i get more emails
and IMs from guys who are over 26...how do i nicely let them ... |
14 |
150 |
21 |
2.26 |
5/3/2009 6:30 pm |
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How do YOU handle this?
Let's say you have made a connection here (or on another
site, whatever...) and you finally meet. You discover
that there is just not a good connection there, or no real
attraction... what do you ... |
15 |
189 |
66 |
3.73 |
4/26/2009 3:38 pm |
zacho, 18 M
4/20/2009 10:39 pm
10
Articles,
Score
0.0
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Just take it.
I think if someone doesn't want to talk or see you then
you should just accept it. Seems obvious to ... |
4 |
41 |
14 |
4.26 |
4/20/2009 10:39 pm |
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Here is a scenario:
We, as a couple, choose to play together with women..not
necessarily other couples. We get propositioned all the
time from couples that want us to come play with them. As
inviting an offer as it is, ... |
7 |
77 |
3 |
2.45 |
4/13/2009 8:54 pm |
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When is it time to say no thanks
Being a man on a site where its 15 pluss men to one women i find
it hard to get contacts that i really like . I met someone
we spoke we chatted we swopped msn everything was going
great then silence ... |
3 |
74 |
12 |
2.62 |
4/11/2009 2:46 pm |
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why when we say 'no thank you'?
Some guys say when they have been told No thank you, well
'your loss'
why is it my loss? if i don't think we match for whatever
reason, how can that then be my loss.
It makes me ... |
17 |
128 |
17 |
2.14 |
4/4/2009 3:47 am |
|
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No thanks
No ... |
1 |
26 |
2 |
0.00 |
3/24/2009 12:21 pm |
|
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Accept no without humiliating yourself ...
It's hard enough to get some guys to accept no, and move on. But it's really hard to watch, let alone be the object of, outright begging!I have turned down friend requests, chat requests, etc. only ... |
13 |
232 |
46 |
5.74 |
3/24/2009 7:04 am |
|
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what is it..
with people who cant take no for an answer? why are there so many nuts out there that think just because
you slept with them a couple times you are meant to be together ... |
5 |
62 |
16 |
2.54 |
3/15/2009 10:35 am |
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why not just accept the response no thanks
wasn't sure whether to put this in the 'saying
'no thanks' or the rants & raves
So many times I get contacted by the same people who I have
said no thanks to as politely as I can.
... |
8 |
80 |
16 |
3.72 |
3/11/2009 9:17 am |
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How is it possible to say "No Thanks"?
Having had some awesome play time with Conny&Co.,
some of my boy toys and friends wanted to know more about
it, so I wrote down, what I could remember. Here is a link
to it, if you like multiple ... |
1 |
90 |
2 |
3.81 |
3/8/2009 2:46 pm |
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why why no pics?
After being on this scene on and off for over 20 years we've
come to realise its a total absolute waste of time and breath
asking people to put SOME kind of pics in profile! Despite
us sayin they ... |
12 |
110 |
54 |
1.21 |
3/7/2009 7:32 am |
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It was a beautiful day but somebody broke my tooth ( why!!!)
It was a beautiful day but why somebody broke my tooth..........
Today it's nice day , the weather 's cooling down
a little bit That's hard to find a beautiful like this in the city
of angels So I ... |
2 |
20 |
2 |
2.42 |
2/23/2009 7:30 pm |
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thx but no thx
saying thanx is actually a gr8 thing!!
thats what has been taught to us as we grew up.. to the extent
that sometimes in our childhood we used to ask our parents
why are we thanking this ... |
2 |
55 |
9 |
4.07 |
2/21/2009 12:48 pm |
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How to politely turn down an unattractive offer?
It's funny how this site works sometimes. I clearly state in my profile that I am looking for slim petite
athletic young women yet I still get offers from over the
hill fat chicks left and right. I'm ... |
12 |
154 |
44 |
1.60 |
2/17/2009 11:10 am |
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Strange e-mails
So every once in awhile I get the request from another guy.
Is this that normal?
Is it customary to respond, or just delete the thing. They
did all that work sending it, it seems cold to ... |
9 |
89 |
18 |
1.35 |
2/3/2009 10:33 pm |
|
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Sore Losers...
I had a guy email me with interest of talking and I politely
told him he had a great profile, seemed like a nice guy, but
I had recently started dating someone/am looking for a
girl to join us. ... |
17 |
226 |
95 |
2.34 |
1/27/2009 4:46 pm |
|
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Saying No to an Ex.
Does anyone have advice on how to say no to an ex. The sex was GREA but she really hurt me and I dont wanna give
her the privilege of being with ... |
6 |
56 |
4 |
4.02 |
1/21/2009 8:00 pm |
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I AM FED UP WITH IT.
I FEEL YOU ALL HAVE BEEN HERE YOU SAY NO WELL IT MEANS THAT
NO THANKS, AS I HAVE BEEN LET DOWN BY A MEMBER FROM NZ Friend Finder WHO
SAID HE WAS COMING OVER TO ME BUT HE NEVER HAD THE GUTS TO SAY
SORRY, HOW WOULD ... |
2 |
93 |
16 |
3.42 |
1/19/2009 6:51 am |
|
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do you keep asking for it or ..
when someone says no to doing whatever it is you want them
to do do you keep on bothering them till they change theyre
mind or.. ... |
7 |
55 |
25 |
1.14 |
1/15/2009 2:42 pm |
|
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whats the best way...
to say "no ... |
6 |
69 |
11 |
2.98 |
1/13/2009 7:57 am |
|
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Ever A Time For No?
Was there ever a time you were turned off from having sex
when your partner made a suggestion or request that just
was no ... |
1 |
24 |
0 |
0.00 |
1/7/2009 1:06 am |
|
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Saying Just That
One would think that it may be easy to say "no thanks"
to someone. There are variables to a given situation where
that may be simple or somewhat difficult. We are all adults
and you would think ... |
2 |
103 |
2 |
2.42 |
1/4/2009 3:02 am |
|
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Why Waste Time?
I've been a member of NZ Friend Finder for 6 yrs now, my question is:
Why do the Gold members have to spend money for standards
to view their profiles? Then these "cheap-os"
have the nerve to "request" VIP be in ... |
8 |
134 |
13 |
1.80 |
12/29/2008 6:23 pm |
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Identify an potentially bad idea
I just want to alert the women here.
I met someone on this site, who seemed like a sweet, sane
person. He has a very popular profile, and has many regular
visitors to his pages. Initially, I ... |
23 |
588 |
106 |
4.62 |
12/9/2008 1:06 pm |
mcsopi, 29 M
12/4/2008 3:00 pm
1
Article,
Score
0.0
|
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Ok ladies what turns you on?
So ladies what really turns you on? What kind of guy really
makes your light turn green? I've heard ladies saying
that a good personality, charming, romantic and he doesn't
even have to look like ... |
1 |
103 |
5 |
2.16 |
12/4/2008 3:00 pm |
|
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hello
Ladies it is ok to say no to ... |
2 |
57 |
4 |
5.19 |
12/4/2008 12:48 pm |
|
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Being Polite
I have emailed some of the beautiful women on NZ Friend Finder and have
corresponded with a couple who I would enjoy meeting.
But those who have been emailed could politely respond
back with a no thank ... |
7 |
57 |
19 |
4.18 |
12/3/2008 4:43 pm |
|
|
How hard..
How hard is it to say "No" to someone for you?
For me i find it hard at all to say No for ... |
2 |
51 |
9 |
3.64 |
11/26/2008 10:45 am |
|
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Sign of the times !
You try to enter your password on the microwave.
You haven't played solitaire with a real deck of cards
in a year.
You have a list of fifteen phone numbers to reach your family ... |
21 |
148 |
125 |
0.00 |
11/21/2008 10:33 am |
|
|
Divorce ! ! !
The word "divorce, " from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals up through
his ass, through his Levi's and plumb through his wallet
and on to freedom. ... |
21 |
172 |
184 |
0.72 |
11/11/2008 9:10 am |
|
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no
if u dont want it say no no ... |
3 |
73 |
5 |
3.47 |
10/28/2008 4:43 am |
|
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Hmmmm.....
Hey other guys! Do you ever say "No Thanks" to
a woman who wants sex with you. I never ... |
5 |
109 |
9 |
1.93 |
10/14/2008 1:49 am |
|
|
If Someone says "Thank you but I am not interested"..
Or one of those others pleasant let you down easy one liners,
why do you feel the need to counter the statement with "Why?"
or some other pestering comment or rude comment?
Would these ... |
32 |
250 |
116 |
1.01 |
9/26/2008 8:14 pm |
|
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what should I do???
Here's the thing everyone. My best friends mom wants
to have a three some with me and her best friend. However
I've slept with his mom once already and it wasn't
that great, but her friend is fine as ... |
16 |
264 |
73 |
1.47 |
9/24/2008 9:18 am |
|
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Too many messages...
How many is too many?
I say 2, after two they are not interested in ... |
10 |
138 |
22 |
2.29 |
9/7/2008 4:53 pm |
|
|
Its hard to say no!
I dont know if there are other people like me out there but
i am scared of peoples reaction when a person was to say NO!
I think i would feel really bad for letting him/her/them
down. Wot would be ... |
13 |
143 |
22 |
1.81 |
9/7/2008 4:12 am |
|
|
YOU SUSPECT A STD
You meet someone online. You meet in person and like one
another. You decide to have sex. You're both naked.
Then you see it. A bump, blister, redness, or something
else that you think could be a ... |
2 |
152 |
10 |
3.58 |
8/31/2008 10:40 pm |
|
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shes ugly
ey if shes ugly dont fuck her!!!!threw my tyme i expierenced
my share of ugly 1s i fukd based on bieng horney.but realy
thats not the rite thing to do. see fine sexy females are
a way ... |
4 |
116 |
26 |
0.44 |
8/28/2008 8:19 am |
|
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what's up with that? > rejection
so you nicely tell someone no thanks or that your not attracted
to them and then suddenly you find them having a tantrum
like a little kid. They curse you out and send nasty emails.
I mean come on ... |
7 |
133 |
42 |
3.00 |
8/22/2008 1:21 pm |
|
|
Overcoming Sexual Addiction
The consequences of sexual addiction may be devastating
to not only the addict but also those close to him/her. It
can leave an addict isolated, immensely anxious and depressed
to the point of being ... |
2 |
82 |
7 |
2.02 |
8/22/2008 11:26 am |
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repeats
how can you nicely say I DONT WANT YOU, after you ignore and
tewll them they are not your ... |
12 |
126 |
31 |
3.43 |
8/6/2008 1:46 am |
|
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How to say No
Picture this:
Its Monday, your horny so you log into your account. To your
dismay, there is a message from someone that you have no
interest in. At this point, you can do two things: ... |
18 |
255 |
51 |
3.56 |
8/3/2008 9:06 am |
|
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WHAT WOULD U SAY YES OR NO TO DO TELL ?
OK THIS IS FOR MALE AND FEMALE , GROMING HOW DO U LIKE YOUR
SEX PART TO BE SHAVED, BUSH, TRIMED, OR ALMOST ALL THE
WAY SHAVED WITH A LITTLE ... |
20 |
148 |
34 |
3.06 |
7/31/2008 11:03 pm |
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Not an easy thing
Guess it depends on how warm/cold
a person you are to how difficult you find this.
We are very tactful and warm people
so ... |
2 |
40 |
7 |
3.80 |
7/29/2008 12:43 pm |
|
|
How to say No Thanks
First of all, anyone and everyone in this lifestyle should
know that no means NO. Unfortunately there are a few who
don't get that.
Also unfortunate are those people who are nervous or ... |
4 |
88 |
10 |
4.18 |
7/26/2008 3:12 pm |
|
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How do you say no at a House Party
We are both really nervous. So, we are going to our first
house party tonight. We really don't know what the
etiquette for these things.
We are mostly afraid of having to say no thanks to ... |
2 |
105 |
8 |
2.78 |
7/26/2008 8:37 am |
|
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kissing on first date
MOst women will give a kiss the first date.Some even hand
the kat over.My thing is with all the variables, do ladies
chosse right off the bat who can hit it?Or the guy has to change
her mind ... |
5 |
68 |
7 |
2.53 |
7/25/2008 11:04 am |
|
|
How to say no thanks
People are always giving excuses instead of saying no thanks.
It is touhg sometimes, but if you are up front with them,
and you have the best in mind for you and the other then it
is always ... |
5 |
57 |
10 |
2.59 |
7/23/2008 7:49 am |
|
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love
when u kiss 1st time and say no thanks then its cheating with ... |
0 |
22 |
3 |
0.00 |
7/22/2008 6:09 am |
|
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Sexual Identity
According to studies, the first letter of your first name
reveals your sexual identity ... What do you think?
-A- You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested
inaction. You mean ... |
16 |
201 |
10 |
3.78 |
7/14/2008 11:06 am |
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just say it
after chatting with someone and you find that your really
not interested. Just say "no thanks" don't
just ignore the person, that is really ... |
8 |
45 |
7 |
1.77 |
7/5/2008 6:41 pm |
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why is it so hard
I have found that many people will just ignore you instead
of just saying I am not interested. Why? I wouldn't
do that to anyone, so, lets just have some common ... |
1 |
15 |
2 |
1.73 |
7/5/2008 5:42 pm |
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saying no thanks to friends invites
What i have noticed, and heard others speak of also is that
it seems like a lot of times people dont answer friends invites
and just leave them pending, and it just takes a couple
of clicks to say no ... |
8 |
56 |
24 |
2.22 |
7/4/2008 4:02 pm |
|
|
why can't people reply to emails just to say "no thanks?"
in my opinion most people on here r jerks. i rspond to everyone
whether i'm telling them "no thanks" or
"call me". its only polite. and some of the messages
i have gotten were raunchy.not everyone ... |
13 |
116 |
20 |
4.66 |
7/3/2008 5:52 am |
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It's polite...
Since I'm out of work for a while I have way too much time
on my hands...HaHa... I think that if someone not only takes the time to read my,
very long, profile and then emails me the only polite ... |
3 |
57 |
9 |
3.43 |
7/1/2008 6:11 pm |
|
|
is it too much to expect an actual rejection when getting rejected?
Is it just me or do people who reject you via ignoring you
just piss you off.. at least tell me to go fuck off.. I recently
met up with a woman I met on here.. drove about an hour to meet
up with ... |
6 |
82 |
7 |
4.06 |
6/25/2008 3:14 am |
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Won't happen again.
There have been different times when my husband has been
attracted to the female of the other couple but I was not
attracted to the male half, or vice versa. Both of us have
"taken one for the team" ... |
8 |
129 |
26 |
3.46 |
6/24/2008 5:15 am |
|
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saying stop
if some guys makes you made. Smack the crap out of him. I mean
then He will be mad and not talk to you every again. Then if
he don't want to leave smack him some more. Until he
starts crying and say ... |
3 |
38 |
18 |
0.00 |
6/23/2008 8:16 pm |
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how do u reject a woman ????
I only want to knwo how to reject a womans attack without
insulting ... |
6 |
59 |
9 |
2.78 |
6/12/2008 12:17 am |
|
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For lesbians
Sometimes guys, just look at the pretty pictures on you
profiles, and don't even bother to read what your profile
says. Must guys are like this. Besides the fact the we men
have to do all the e-mails ... |
4 |
47 |
14 |
0.00 |
6/11/2008 9:59 am |
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Ok this ones weird
what if you hook up on date, with a girl that you dislike and
she won't leave you alone? And she try to get in your pants. to jack you off? what if she
jumps all over you an starts throwing all her ... |
0 |
33 |
10 |
0.00 |
6/10/2008 11:12 am |
|
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If you feel she don't like you
If you really like a girl, but you feel maybe she don't
like you. Theres a problem, sometimes we can't get
what we want. Its real sad but true. Hey everybody want to
be with the hottest girl in high ... |
0 |
18 |
9 |
0.00 |
6/10/2008 11:06 am |
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right thing or not
How do you say "no thanks" to guys when they email
you when your profile says "no men please."
It says no men and they still write back. Do you just not write
back and ignore or do you still write ... |
5 |
86 |
17 |
1.85 |
6/9/2008 8:56 pm |
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Heroin
So your having sex with this girl, and she like want you to
try and use drugs like heroin with here. If I were you I would
flip. Your having girl that inject stuff in her beside your
dick, and I get ... |
1 |
52 |
16 |
0.04 |
6/9/2008 10:59 am |
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What about booting up on a date
So your having sex with this girl, and she like want you to
try and use drugs like heroin with here. If I were you I would
flip. Your having girl that inject stuff in her beside your
dick, and I get ... |
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6/9/2008 10:56 am |
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When To say, Not Yet
people have been smacked for doing something that is offense.
Like when I was in High school a long time ago. I really liked
this girl and I would kiss her on the check. But one day by
mistake I kiss ... |
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6/9/2008 9:43 am |
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saying no is hard
it is very hard but u have to it is worth ... |
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5/30/2008 4:58 pm |
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Lets be adults
Most people ( men especially ) are too cowardly on this front
and will bumble around making until the other person gets
upset and annoyed.Be honest and upfront, we are all adults
on here and should ... |
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5/28/2008 9:40 am |
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"I didn't want to hurt him"
I don't understand why women blow off men because they
"don't want to hurt them". I've seen
this happen many times with friends (male and female),
and to myself as well. A guy will ask a girl out, ... |
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5/22/2008 5:39 pm |
T0685, 33 M
5/9/2008 4:42 pm
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Just say no
Has anybody ever had second thoughts about having sex with
someone when they have just met them on her? If so how did you let them ... |
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5/9/2008 4:42 pm |
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No means no
Well you just have to speak up ur mind. No means no. That simple.
The more you are indecisive about it the more you will regret ... |
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2.56 |
4/21/2008 4:56 am |
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No to sex
Saying no to sex I can not do.How about ... |
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2.42 |
4/16/2008 5:15 pm |
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Lets just face the fact
Being all "adults" here at this site, it seems
to me that we could use a Little common courtesy. Its ok to
let someone know if your not interested, "thanks,
but no thanks". I don't think there's ... |
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2.92 |
4/13/2008 7:19 pm |
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How do you do it
Met a lady online-seemed great-got to know her very well
via email, shared pics (she loooks good)started talking
on phone, etc but her voice absolutely kills me-its awful...how
do artfully back away ... |
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1.87 |
4/4/2008 9:59 am |
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Why are some people so mean?
I don't understand why some find it necessary to write
so cruelly when one says a polite "No thank you."
After responding rather than ignoring their communications,
and doing so in a polite ... |
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84 |
3.54 |
3/31/2008 9:40 am |
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Examples of saying 'no' nicely?
Hi all, the most frequent advice on the topic of saying 'no'
is that it's better to be honest.
That sounds great, and we agree, but how exactly? We are
a couple contacted by a lot of other ... |
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3/27/2008 6:46 pm |
